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My ex ran into me at a restaurant last month. He was with someone new. She asked him how he knew me. The look on his face was worth every morning routine. Okay so let me tell you exactly how this went. Friday night. Good restaurant. I am there with two friends, we have a corner table, second glass of wine already poured, the kind of evening where nothing needs to happen for it to already be a good night. And then he walks in. With a woman I have never seen before. They look comfortable. The settled kind of comfortable. He has not spotted me yet. I have spotted him. That order of events felt important. About four minutes later he sees me. I watch his face do several things in quick succession. Recognition. Then something else. Something more interesting that I filed away to enjoy later. They come over. Because of course they do, what else are you going to do at that point. She is perfectly nice. We do the whole civilised thing. And then she looks between us, clearly trying to work out the story, and asks him how we know each other. He says we are old friends. Old. Friends. I smiled. Took a sip of my wine. Said absolutely nothing. Let that one breathe for a moment. After they left my friend looked at me and said you just won something. I said I did not know it was a competition. She said it one hundred percent was and I had done it effortlessly, which she found both impressive and slightly annoying. Here is the thing though. It was not effortless. It just looked that way because the effort had been happening quietly for the past eighteen months and by Friday evening it was already done. I have been single for three years. First year was mostly just getting through it. Second year I started actually doing the things I had been putting off forever. Moving my body consistently. Eating like I gave a damn. Sleeping properly, which sounds basic but had not been happening for a long time. And sorting out my skin, specifically my body skin, which had been getting absolutely nothing from me for most of my adult life and had started to make that fairly obvious. I went through a bit of a reading phase. Ingredients, formulas, what things actually do versus what they claim to do on the front of the packaging. Most body products I had been using were doing very little. Felt nice for a couple of hours and then my skin was back to dry and a bit dull by the afternoon. Nothing was actually changing. It was just maintenance theatre. What I kept reading was that body skin responds really well to the right oils used consistently. Not oils mixed with a load of other things, just actual oil, cold-pressed so the good stuff is still in it, applied daily without overthinking it. Simple in theory. Finding the right one took a while. Besque was the one that made sense when I read about it properly. Seven cold-pressed natural oils, nothing synthetic, no preservatives, no artificial fragrance. Made in the UK which mattered to me because I wanted to know it was made properly rather than just marketed that way. The formula was clean in a way that felt genuinely clean rather than just positioned as clean if you know what I mean. I started using it every morning. Sometimes evenings too. A few drops, absorbed in a few minutes, smells incredible in a warm earthy way that comes entirely from the oils themselves. My arms, chest, legs. The skin that goes everywhere with me and that I had basically been ignoring for years. The change was not instant. It was the kind of thing that builds week on week and then one day you run your hand down your arm and think oh, that is different. The texture evened out. The dryness stopped being a thing I just lived with. My skin started looking like it belonged to someone who had been looking after it, because after a few months she had. By the time I walked into that restaurant on Friday I was wearing this dress. White and gold, sleeveless, short enough to show off legs that have had eighteen months of proper attention. The gold earrings, the heels, the whole thing came together in about twenty minutes because when your skin is doing its job nothing else needs to work that hard. I sat down at that corner table and did not think once about my arms or my legs or any of the things I used to quietly manage before leaving the house. He called me an old friend. My friend called it winning. I called it compound interest and ordered the pasta. The thing about looking after yourself consistently is that it does not announce itself. It just shows up. On a Friday evening in a restaurant when someone who knew a different version of you runs out of words to explain who you are to the person standing next to him. That look on his face though. I have thought about it more than once since then. Not because of him. Because of the very specific satisfaction of knowing that what produced it was nothing dramatic. Just eighteen months of three minutes every morning and a body oil that actually works.