

Dr. Melisa Arias-Valenzuela, CPsych
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As a body image psychologist, I see the same stories in many different bodies: people hoping that changing their weight or shape will finally bring peace. I’m sharing this because these are the hills I will die on, as the truths I won’t soften. Sometimes weight loss does bring peace, for a while. But body image doesn’t disappear just because the body changes. Because body image isn’t only about the body. It’s about what we’ve learned to believe about ourselves, what we’ve internalized as proof of our worth, and how much we fear judgment. So yes, weight loss can change how you look, but it doesn’t automatically change how you feel. Healing your relationship with your body should never require control. If feeling better depends on restriction, fear, or constant monitoring, that’s not healing, it’s coping. Relief from control is not the same as recovery. You don’t need to love your body to treat it with respect. Body neutrality isn’t giving up. It’s often the most realistic, compassionate place to start. You have autonomy over your body and you deserve informed consent. GLP-1s, diets, and cosmetic procedures can affect body image, eating patterns, self-worth, and fear of judgment. You deserve to know that before deciding. If your self-worth rises and falls with your body, that’s not motivation, it’s a threat response. Healing happens when your nervous system feels supported, not controlled. If this resonates, you’re not alone. You deserve a different relationship with your body, one grounded in respect, not fear. You landed on my post for a reason. For more support on your body image resilience journey, follow @hey_drmel 🙋🏻♀️ Also follow my practice for everyday mental wellness @uprisepsychologywellness 🏡 . . . . . Disclaimer: My social media accounts are for educational purposes only and should not be considered psychotherapy or medical care.
Dr. Melisa Arias-Valenzuela, CPsych
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