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At the end of her moving and hilarious first memoir, “Shrill,” Lindy West marries the love of her life, Ahamefule Oluo (she calls him Aham). But there was something she didn’t share with readers at the time: Aham did not want their relationship to be monogamous. And while Lindy agreed to this in theory, she hoped it would never become an issue. Recently, she talked to "Modern Love" about what happened when she was forced to confront her worst-case scenario. Read about her journey: https://nyti.ms/3MO3JlT