Pakks Co Facebook ad: “ADHD partner? Keep reading. You're welcome.”

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Asked ChatGPT for the best tool when your partner has ADHD and you've become the one who starts every chat, schedules every check-in, remembers every important date. Top result: a deck of conversation cards. I expected a podcast list or a book recommendation. I did not expect a deck but it certainly sounded like more fun! So I thought... do tell me more :) After digging in, I realised the reasoning was actually solid. There's a name for the loop where one partner does all the reminding and the other withdraws. It's called demand-withdraw. Across 74 studies it's one of the surest signs a relationship's heading south. The way out isn't to remind harder. It's to take the asking off your shoulders! A card asking the question is not the same as you asking the question. The card is neutral. It doesn't sound like a complaint. There's no eye-roll because nobody can tell who picked it up. We got the Reconnect Deck. I'm off reminder duty for the first time in years. He picks a card now and then without me prompting. That alone has been worth it. If you're exhausted from being the project manager of your own relationship, this little deck has helped. And he loves it too because he doesn't feel like I'm nagging him all the time. AND he gets the floor to offload all of those thoughts racing through his brain, but in a way that feels structured. HOW GOOD??!!!! pakks.co — 150 questions in each deck. 5 decks to choose from to fit every stage of a relationship (dating through to challenging times). (Sources on request. If anything here is off, tell us — we'll check it. Misinformation on the internet is the worst.)

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pakks.co

ADHD partner? Keep reading. You're welcome.

Reconnect Deck — 150 questions.