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I have deliberately only focused on these subtle ways that, as men, we make the women we date or are in relationships with feel unsafe. (Note: For us men, safety is predominantly about physical safety, this is just one of a number of safety elements a woman is highly attuned to.) I have deliberately only focused on the type of men who thinks he is being nice and good with their niceness and inauthenticity. I have not touched on the man that: 👉🏽 That is dominating, because he believes “that’s what she wanted” 👉🏽 That is entitled and creepy as a seduction tactic 👉🏽 That is bitter and angry at women and projects his insecurities onto them 👉🏽 That is, believing in following what “intrinsic mate value” tells us about dating is a way to date. I have focused on the man who is proud to say he is a good man. But he is also a man that don’t know what the love and connection he desires and longs for hasn’t come to him. That feel frustrated that women “say that they want a good man, but don’t pick me.” I say to that man, you might not do all of what is in the images above, but you do enough of them to damage truth, safety and reliability. What you are trying to create in "Grounded Safety" with a woman, to have her feel your transmission of substance, depth, emotional awareness and calm. Aka, to see you are a good man. But because of the fear, insecurity and lack of self-approval, you create too many moments of ungroundedness and a lack of safety. But because your mind is filled with overthinking and your emotions suppressed, you don't feel it, but she does, and that is why the love and relationship you desire are proving elusive. And the transmission you give her is of a man pretending to be a good man. ✅ Men, do you want to step deeply into your healthy masculinity, to have clarity, direction and magnetism, but aren't sure how? 👉🏽 DM "Pear" to get your FREE spot for my Re-Masculate Masterclass on 25th Feb