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My boyfriend is perfect in every single way except one thing...He won't go down on me. And I know that sounds shallow or like I'm being dramatic, but hear me out because this turned into something way bigger than just sex. So he did it once for maybe 10 seconds when we first started dating. And then never again. And every time I'd try to bring it up, he'd laugh it off or change the subject. Like I'd be lying there after sex thinking "okay, maybe tonight" and then... nothing. Just immediately moving on to the next thing. So I started asking directly like "Hey can we talk about this? It's important to me." And he'd dodge it every single time. Which made my brain go to the worst possible place, something is wrong with me. And I became hyperaware of everything, I'd shower twice a day, use pH wipes constantly and only wear cotton underwear. Even avoid certain foods because I read somewhere they affect taste. And I'd still lie there during sex wondering if I smelled bad or if I tasted weird and he was secretly repulsed by me but too polite to say it. But oral is my favorite thing in the bedroom, like that's what actually gets me there. And knowing the man I love didn't want me that way made me feel... broken. So I talked to my best friend about it and she reminded me that other guys in the past had no problem with it even actually enjoyed it. Which helped for like five minutes, then made it worse. Because now I'm thinking "So it's not me in general, it's specifically ME with HIM, so what's different?" And I'd be lying if I said it didn't affect everything else. Like, I'd feel distant during intimacy, avoid initiating and sometimes even make excuses. Because how do you feel desired by someone who won't do the one thing that makes you feel desired? So last week I got sick of it and I brought it up again and stayed firm. No laughing it off or changing the subject because I needed an actual answer. And after dodging for a bit, he finally said it. "It's not really my preference. But I could try if you want." And honestly? That made it worse. Because now I know if he tries it'll be a pity attempt. And he'll be thinking about how much he doesn't want to be doing it while I'll be thinking about how he doesn't want to be doing it. And that's not hot, its just depressing. But here's the thing that's eating me alive, I told my friend half jokingly years ago "I could never date a guy who doesn't go down on me." And now I'm planning to marry this man which means giving that up forever. So I've been lying awake at night spiraling. Like do I just accept this or do I bring it up again? Then two weeks ago something shifted. And we were lying in bed after sex and I just asked point blank, "Is it the taste? Like, just tell me I can handle it." And he got quiet but then finally admitted, "Yeah it's just... off, I don't know how to explain it." And my first reaction was shame like, of course something IS wrong with me. But then I started Googling at 2am (because that's what you do when you can't sleep and feel broken). And I came across this woman on Reddit explaining that taste and smell issues aren't about hygiene. They're about something called biofilms. Stay with me because this actually explained everything. So basically, your vagina has good bacteria and bad bacteria. And the bad bacteria don't just sit there but they build these slimy protective layers on your vaginal walls. And think of it like a greasy coating on a pan. You can rinse the pan with water and it looks clean on top, but that greasy film is still there underneath. So that's what's happening inside. When you shower or use wipes, you're cleaning the surface. But the layer underneath stays there, and that's what's affecting taste and smell. The bacteria in that layer keep multiplying. So even an hour after you shower, they're already rebuilding. That's why you can feel fresh after a shower but taste "off" to your partner later. And here's the part that made me want to cry... The woman linked a study showing that a pineapple enzyme actually breaks down that protective layer. Like literally dissolves it. But you can't just eat pineapple, you need the actual enzyme from the stem, which most people don't eat. And you need to pair it with a specific type of good bacteria that can survive your stomach acid and actually make it down there to replace the bad bacteria. Because apparently 96% of probiotics die in your stomach before they even reach your vagina. So all those probiotics I'd been taking were useless. But there's one strain Bacillus Coagulans that has a protective shell. So it survives the trip and actually makes it to where it needs to go. And when you combine the enzyme that breaks down the bad layer with the bacteria that survives, your body stops producing that "off" taste and smell. So she recommended these gummies that had both ingredients. And I'm sitting there thinking, "Okay, this is probably BS. But what if it's not?" Because at this point, I'd tried everything else. What's one more thing? So I ordered them and didn't tell my boyfriend but started taking two a day. Week 1: Nothing, still self conscious and avoided initiating. Week 2: I noticed I felt... fresher? Like, I'd go to the bathroom and not immediately worry about smell. Week 3: My boyfriend initiated sex and went down on me without me asking. For the first time in over a year. And I froze because I didn't know what to do. I'd spent so long feeling unwanted that I forgot what it felt like to feel wanted. Afterwards I asked him, "Why tonight?" And he just said, "I don't know but you just... taste different like in a good way." But I didn't tell him about the gummies yet because I wanted to see if it lasted. Week 4: He did it again, without me hinting or asking! And he told me I "taste sweet now." And I literally cried, not during but after in the shower. Because I'd spent months thinking something was fundamentally wrong with me. Months feeling undesirable and months avoiding intimacy because I was terrified of rejection. And the whole time, it wasn't me but it was just that stupid bacterial layer that I didn't even know existed. So it's been three months now and he goes down on me regularly. And I don't feel like I have to shower three times before sex or use wipes compulsively. And I'm no longer lying there wondering if he's secretly repulsed. These gummies have the actual pineapple stem enzyme and the Bacillus Coagulans strain that survives. And I'm sharing this because if your partner won't go down on you and you've been spiraling thinking something is wrong with you. It might not be you but it might be that layer because apparently 1 in 3 women will get it. But you can fix it in literally just a few weeks. And I'm not saying it'll save every relationship or solve every problem. But I almost walked away from the man I love over something that had a solution the whole time. And that feeling of being desired again after months of feeling unwanted is everything. EDIT: Heres the company that saved me- https://mynuora.com/products/feminine-balance-gummies-1