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Too much. Too sensitive. Too intense. You've probably called yourself all three, usually right after a moment you wish you'd handled differently. But those words describe the surface. They miss what's actually happening underneath. What looks like 'too much' is usually a nervous system that learned, early and without your permission, that closeness could vanish. So it watches, braces, and reaches, all to keep you safe. That's not a character flaw. It's a survival setting. And the reason this matters: settings can be changed, even in adulthood. Not by trying harder to be calmer, and not by shaming the part of you that reacts. By gently teaching your body a new sense of safety, a little each day, until the old alarm stops running the show. See how the retraining works.