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I am not being paid or sponsored. I just need other people caring for their loved ones to know about this. My mom was 77 and got up 2-3 times a night to use the bathroom. I know, because I was awake for every single one. A while back, she moved in with us after her hip surgery. I would lay awake every single night listening for her slippers shuffling and her footsteps into the hallway to the bathroom. I did everything the OT said. Grab bars, raised seat, and hall light left on all night. I also got her a nightlight for the bathroom so she didn't have to wake herself up with the bathroom lights. But it wasn't enough. On March 8th at 3am. I heard the slippers. I heard the door. Then I heard a single heavy thud. I was in her bathroom seconds later. She was on the floor in the dark. She hit her head on the vanity on the way down. She spent four days in hospital and never came home. I had done everything right and she still fell. Then my sister called, she'd just moved her father-in-law in after his stroke and was terrified about him using bathroom. He had limited mobility and would get up to use it in the middle of the night just like mom. We didn't want the same thing to happen to him so we started searching. Then I saw a comment in a Facebook group I was in. A woman whose husband was a geriatric nurse said regular nightlights fail because they can cast shadows around the toilet area which can confuse elderly people in the middle of the night. She swore by this automatic toilet nightlight that sticks under the toilet lid. It's motion activated and has a soft glow right at the bowl level. She said since switching to in-toilet lighting, falls dropped by 34%. It also has an automatic sanitizing cycle that runs every time you close the lid, which she said can help prevent UTIs. I ordered one for my sister. Three weeks after she installed it her father-in-law was making every trip completely on his own. She called me and said: I slept, Loretta. I actually slept. His mobility is not improving and we both know that. But for the first time since I lost Mom I feel like I actually found something that helps. She ordered two more for all around their house. I wish someone had told me about this while my mom was still alive.