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Three years ago I buried my husband. I am not ready to bury his dog. He's thirteen now. Some mornings he doesn't get up when I walk into the room. Tom brought him home as a puppy, eight weeks old, ears too big for his head. Named him Hank. For ten years that dog never left his side. Sat at his feet every morning, followed him to the garage, put his head on Tom's knee every night during the news. I was there too. But Hank had his person, and it wasn't me. Tom got sick. And then he was gone. I don't know what dogs understand about death. I don't know if Hank waited for him or looked for him or just knew. What I know is that the night after the funeral, I was lying in the dark, and I heard the click of his nails on the hallway floor. He walked in, came around to my side, and laid down on the rug next to me. He's been there every night since. It happened slowly. The nails clicking behind me to the kitchen in the morning. Sitting at my feet while I drank my coffee, in the same spot where Tom used to sit across from me. Following me from room to room like I might disappear too. All the things he used to do for Tom, he started doing for me. Like Tom had told him to. Like he knew someone still needed to take care of me, and he was the only one left who could. I took over everything. His food, his supplements, his walks. Tom had the whole routine written on a notepad on the fridge. His handwriting. I kept following it because Hank expected it. He'd sit by the cabinet at 7am waiting for his chews. He'd stand by the door at 4pm for his walk. Some mornings I'd stand there reading that notepad and it felt like Tom was still in the room, still telling me what needed to happen next. And then somewhere along the way, it stopped being Tom's routine. It became mine. My daughter has been gentle about it. But she's been saying the same thing in different ways for a year. Maybe sell the house. Maybe travel. Maybe meet someone. She flew in last month and stood in my kitchen looking at the fridge. Tom's handwriting. The supplement bottles. The leash on the hook by the door. "Mom, you're organizing your whole life around a dog." Like she was worried about me. Like this was something I needed to be talked out of. I didn't say what I wanted to say. That Hank is not why I stay in this house. That when he puts his head on my knee at night, in the exact spot where he used to put it on Tom's, it's the closest I get to the life I had. That every morning I hear those nails on the floor it means Tom is still here, still moving through this house, just in a different body. That he's thirteen years old and he is the last living thing that was Tom's and I am not ready for this house to go quiet. "He's a good dog." That's what I said. She left on Sunday. I sat on the couch that night and Hank didn't come. He was lying on his bed in the living room, looking at me, but he didn't get up. That was new. He'd been slower on walks for a few months. Shorter distances. More rest stops. Some mornings he wouldn't stand up right away when I opened the cabinet. He'd just look at me from the floor and wait, like he needed a minute. I told myself it was the weather. Or he'd overdone it the day before. All the things you tell yourself when you don't want to see what's happening. But that night on the couch, when he didn't come put his head on my knee, it wasn't the dog I was scared of losing. It was Tom. Again. The last piece of him slipping away, twelve feet from where I was sitting, and I couldn't do anything about it. I told Jan about it the next morning on our walk. Jan lives two streets over. We've been walking the same loop for four years. She has a Lab named Gus who's eleven. She's the kind of person who reads the back of every bottle in her house and spends two weeks researching something before she'll try it. If Jan tells me something works, I believe her, because she didn't believe it easily either. She didn't say much at first. "Have you heard of red light therapy for dogs?" I hadn't. Her niece had been using something called a TheraBelt on her dog for about five months. A belt that wraps around them. Red light, the same kind of thing women use on their skin, but made for dogs. Her niece's dog was fourteen. Still getting up to greet people at the door. Coat still thick. Moving like a dog half its age. Jan's niece had to wait a few weeks when she ordered because they make them in small runs. I looked it up that night. Part of me felt stupid. Part of me thought this is what people do when they're desperate. They start believing in things. But then I read something that stopped me. The light helps cells make more energy. That's what it does. And dogs age so much faster than we do. A dog lives ten, maybe fifteen years. We live eighty. So what takes years to show in a person takes weeks in a dog. Their whole clock is compressed. That made sense to me in a way that most things don't. It wasn't a promise. It was just math. I ordered one. It came in a few days. The first time I put it on Hank, he just looked at me like I was being weird. Fifteen minutes while I drank my coffee. That was it. I didn't tell anyone. I didn't tell my daughter. I didn't tell Jan. I just added it to the morning. Coffee, supplements, belt. Fifteen minutes. Nothing happened for a while. Two weeks, maybe more. I almost stopped. Then one morning I was in the kitchen and I heard it. The click of his nails coming down the hall. Quicker than I'd heard in months. He walked into the kitchen and stood at the cabinet at 7am. Waiting. Like he used to. Like Tom had just told him it was time. I didn't say anything to anyone. I didn't want to jinx it. Three weeks later, Jan and I were walking the loop. Hank was with me. He hadn't walked the full loop in two months. That day he did. Jan watched him the whole time. She'd seen the slow months. She'd seen me shortening the route, turning back early, making excuses. "That is not the same dog you were walking with three months ago." A week after that I took him in for his regular checkup. The vet has been seeing Hank since he was four. She looked at him, looked at her chart, looked at him again. "He's moving well for thirteen." I sat in the parking lot after and just sat there for a while. He's still a little slower on the stairs. That's fine. He's thirteen. But he walks the full loop now. His coat came back enough that my neighbor asked what I'd changed. He gets up when I open the cabinet. He follows me room to room again. And he puts his head on my knee during the news. Right where he used to put it on Tom's. Jan told me last week that her niece's price went up on the last batch. Something about the materials costing more every run. Jan ordered one for Gus that same day. My daughter called yesterday. She asked how I was doing. Good. She asked about Hank. "He's good. He's really good." A pause on the line. "You sound different, Mom." I wanted to tell her everything. About the belt, about Jan, about the way he sounds coming down the hallway in the morning now. How I can tell by the speed of his nails whether it's a good day or a great day. But all I said was, "He's still here." That's all that matters. He's still here. And every morning when I hear those nails on the hallway floor, coming toward me, I know that the last piece of Tom is still in this house. Still following me from room to room. Still choosing me. I'm going to keep it that way for as long as I can.

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