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After 11 years working in mental health, I'm about to do something I was trained never to do. I'm recommending a hoodie. Let me explain — because if you knew me, you'd know how unlike me this is. I lost a client in March. Thirty-four. Two little girls. She'd been seeing me for fourteen weeks. CBT, homework, the whole protocol. In her last session she told me she was "doing much better." Two weeks later her husband phoned my supervisor. I took three months off. Came back because I had to — mortgage, partner, the simple stubbornness of not letting it win. But something was broken in me, and I knew it. First week back, a woman walked into my office wearing a black hoodie. I didn't notice it at first. Then she turned to hang her coat on the door and I saw the words on the back: "Dear person behind me, the world is a better place with you in it." I had to excuse myself. I went to the staff toilet and cried for ten minutes with the tap running so no one would hear. Because here's what eleven years has taught me that they don't put in the training manuals: the fifty minutes I spend with someone each week is a rounding error. It's the other ten thousand minutes that kill people. The Tuesday afternoon at Tesco. The Thursday morning at the bus stop. The Sunday night at 11pm when everything crashes in at once. I can't be there. No therapist can. That's the brutal maths of this work, and nobody tells you before you sign up. But what if someone could? What if a stranger's back could say what I'm trying to say for fifty quid a session — that you are enough. That your story isn't over. That the world is a better place with you in it. I bought one the next week. Live2Live. $25. Started by a woman in the UK after she lost her sister. Not a faceless charity. Not a corporate wellness brand. Just someone who decided nobody else's sister was going down without a fight. I don't wear it in session — there are professional reasons I won't bore you with. But I wear it everywhere else. School run. Sainsbury's. GP waiting room. My mother's 70th. Three weeks ago a teenage girl tapped my shoulder in the Asda car park. She was crying. She said she'd been sitting in her car for twenty minutes trying to decide something and she saw the back of my hoodie as I walked past her windscreen. I sat with her for an hour. She's now in treatment through her GP. She messaged me last week. She is still here. I'm not supposed to recommend products. I'm not paid for this. I'm almost certainly breaking an unwritten rule somewhere. But I lost one client in March and I am never losing another if there is a single thing I can do to stop it. If you've ever thought you didn't matter — please read the back of one of these properly. And if you're one of the quiet ones, if you carry more than you let on, please wear one. You have no idea who is walking behind you. The link is below . $25. If one person reads your back at the right moment, it's done its job.